老婆给我读的-静思语

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静思语

世上有两件事不能等;一、孝顺;二、行善。
There are two things in life that cannot wait; fulfilling filial piety and doing good
Deeds.

爱自己就是报父母恩，健康付出就是感众生恩。
To love ourselves is to show our gratitude to our parents. To serve with a healthy body is to show our gratitude to all sentient beings.

做好事不能少我一人，做坏事不能多我一人。
Include me in doing good deeds; exclude me in devil deeds.

布施不是有钱人的专利，而是一分虔诚的心。
Giving is not the privilege of the rich; it is the privilege of the sincere.

自认力量小，无力付出，或有能力却舍不得付出。这两种人都错失了做好事的机会。
The one who thinks he is not capable of giving, and the one who has the capability but refuses to give, have both missed the opportunity to do good deeds.

拥有物质而心灵空虚，是富中之贫。懂得物质之外，用真诚的爱、真挚的情趣付出，才是富中之富。
One who has material wealth but an empty soul is the “poor” amongst the “rich”. The one with material wealth who gives with sincerity is the “richest” amongst the “rich”.

人生最大的成就是从失败中站起来。
The greatest success in the life is to have courage to stand up after a failure.

不要小看自己，因为人有无限的可能。
Do not underestimate ourselves as man has unlimited potential.

聪明的人的是心重，有智慧的人则勇于舍得。
The smart one tends to be calculative; the wise one is always generous.

舍得、舍得，能舍才能得。
Gain comes after giving.

为人处事要小心、细心，但不要“小心眼”。
Be careful and mindful when dealing with others, but do not be narrow-minded.

“才干”融合“智慧”，再加上一分“感恩心”，才能将事情做得圆融、圆满。
“Competence”, “wisdom” and “gratitude” are the ingredients needed for a job well done.

以同理心诗人，多为人着想，人家自然也会感动，会为我们设想。
Be empathic, be considerate of others and they will be touched and think of us instead.

普天之下，没有我不爱的人，没有我不信的人，没有我不原谅的人。
There is no one on this earth I cannot love, trust, and forgive.

多一次原谅人，就多造一次福；把量放大福就大。
It is a merit to forgive others; the more you forgive the more merits you collect.

要原谅一个无心伤害人的人，不能做一个轻易被别人伤害的人。
Forgive those who unintentionally hurt us. Do not be someone who is easily hurt by others.

改变自己是自救，影响别人是救人。
When we make changes, we are saving ourselves; when we can influence others, we are saving others.

如果影响不了别人，就做自己该做的事吧。
If you cannot influence others, just do your own duties well.

要比谁更爱谁，不要比谁更怕谁。
Lets us compete on who is more loving, not on who is more feared.

脾气嘴巴不好，心地再好，也不算是个好人。
One who is kind-hearted cannot be regarded as a good person if he has a bad temper and speak unkind words.

发脾气是短暂的发疯。
Giving vent to anger is temporary insanity.

生气，就是拿别人的过错来惩罚自己。
We are punishing ourselves with the mistakes of others when we get angry.

人要知福、惜福、再造福。
One must realize and treasure one’s blessings and the continue to cultivate for more.

人事的艰难与琢磨，就是一种考验。
Hardships and difficulties in dealing with people and events are a kind of test.

遇到人事争执时，退一步，海阔天空。
One will gain freedom by making retreat when facing a dispute.

大错误容易反省，小习气不易去除。
It is easy to reflect on major mistakes, but hard to eliminate minor habits.

用心要专，选择要正，如果朝三暮四，使好似从头开始，则永远停留在第一步，而跨步出另一步。
Make a right choice and focus on it. The one with a fickle mind will always stay at the starting point and never makes the first more.

要用心，不要操心、烦心。
Be mindful. Don’t worry or fret.

静坐常思已过，闲谈莫论人非。
We must always reflect upon our own mistake at a quiet time. We must not gossip while chatting with friends.

会遇到困难与阻力，往往是因自己无法跳脱个人的小是小非，彼此间比较与计较。
One encounters difficulties and obstacles petty concerns and has the tendency to compare with others.

以简单的道理与人相处，日子就会很好过。若太复杂，就会惹来满心烦恼。
Life will be good, if we can keep a simple mind in the dealing with people; otherwise, we will be inflicted by an abundance of afflictions.

人因有得失心，而经常患得患失。，“有”的人害怕失去。“无”的人常想着如何获取，所以有烦恼。
Man is constantly swayed by gain or loss. They are afflicted either because they are worried about losing what they own, or that they are constantly pursuing for more.

人生的苦，苦在哪？是“心”打结，看不开！人的生命中有尽头，尽人事后就不要再操心烦恼。
Why is life so bitter? Because our minds are confused! Life will eventually come to an end; hence, do not fret about it once we have done our best.

烦恼并非出在别人身上，而是在自己的心;烦恼从心起，也要从心消除。
Affliction is not created by others but by ourselves. Hence, we must alleviate it from our own mind.

不要随心所欲，要随心教育自己。
Do not simply follow our hearts but must always educate ourselves.

任何事都是从一个决心、一颗种子开始。
Every achievement begins with a firm decision.

时时好心就是时时好日。
Good hearts always beget good days.

一天到晚想着“谁对不起我”，必然很痛苦；若转个念头想“我要感恩谁”，就会很快乐。
We will be miserable if we always harbor the thought of “so and so are not good to me”, if we change the thinking to “I want to thank so and so”, we will be very happy.

一个人的快乐不是因为他拥有得多，而是因为他计较得少。
A person’s happiness stems not from how much he owns but from how little he complains.

屋宽不如心宽。
It is better to have a generous heart than a spacious dwelling.

话多不如话少，话少不如话好。
It is better to speak less and make sure whatever you say is something good.

为自己找借口的人永远不会进步。
A person who always makes excuses for himself can never improve.

甘愿做，欢喜受。
Be willing to do and be happy to bear.

要批评别人时，先想想自己是否完美无缺。
Before criticizing others, think first whether we are perfect.

一个缺口的杯子，如果换一个角度去看它，它仍然是圆的。
A chipped cup still looks good when viewed from another angle.

得理要饶人，理直要气和。
Remain soft-spoken and forgiving, even when the reason is on your side.

人要克服难，不要被难克服。
One must overcome difficulty instead of being overcome by difficulty.

透彻的法，不是殿堂上的诵经、听经，而是亲身投入实践后的体会。
One will truly understand the Dharma only after putting it into action, and not through chanting or listening to it.